Anonymous whispered:
we havent talked in a few years but i hope ur doing well!
not sure who this is LMAO but i can make a few guesses. things could be better, could be worse. hope youre doing well too
no offence but i think a lot of us me included don’t actually want romantic love as badly as we think and really are just lonely and crave a closeness and intimacy that feels out of reach in friendships because of society’s emphasis on marriage and the nuclear family so we project that into the never ending search for a perfect love and a soulmate when really we all just want to mean something to someone
